All of us prefer to avoid problems. But when we think back on the important things we learned in life, we realize that most of our strengths today come from handling problems in the past. The challenge is when we face a problem to day we to be able to be grateful for the problem. Unfortunately, we don't know what we're learning as we're tackling the problem, and we may face some uncomfortable feelings. But facing the problem with acceptance instead of avoiding the problem may help us to solve it and grow.
Pain cannot be avoided. But suffering (pain - acceptance) can be avoided. Face your pain. Accept your problems. Take a deep breath and live yourself into the answers to the problems you face. If you're in a dark tunnel at present, and the light at the end is small or even invisible, keep hope alive that there is light at the end. And keep walking until you see it. Hope will walk with you.
"Hope, like a stranger, came to my door
I was afraid, I was rude
"What are you coming here for?
Have you come to stay
Or are you just passing through?
I've seen your face
But I do not know you"
And he said, "You know me,
But I've had to remain
Hidden in the shadows
Of your sorrow and pain
For you have lived your life
As a slave, so it seems
Believing your nightmares
Instead of your dreams." Bob Bennett
